Don’t fall into this trap. It is a difficult trap not to fall into. In fact we think every couple when planning their wedding has fallen into this at one point or another. Don’t spend every waking moment talking about your wedding, remember you were both a couple before he proposed and you both had lives and lots to talk about before the wedding came along. What you don’t want to do is spend all your time together post engagement talking about the wedding. You want to make sure you have restrictions and still focus on the both of you as a couple and building your relationship together. It can be difficult because there is wedding planning things popping up every time, but you can set boundaries and stick to them. Set specific wedding discussion times during the week. Outside of that time, have fun, plan date nights and activities together where I it is all about the both of you. Enjoy your period of engagement. It only comes once.